Since you’ve already here, I guess you’ve also know some knowledge about thus special community and the high murder and suicide rate. To help us transgender females to stay away from these dangers when they are seeking for love, here are several things we really like you to remember if you are to trans date one of us.
Save the bedroom talk to the bedroom. Even though you know that transgender women exist around you, but you can hardly find out which is one of them. Why? The reasons are pretty obvious. They are not willing to talk about it. Such topic would often leads to curiosity about their genitals, which is considered a very sensitive subject even for cisgender people. This is very distressing really. We are tired of being materialized just because of what is in our pants. Genital surgery is really a very private conversation. Besides, do you think it is proper to talk about such topic on the first date? It is nothing but awkward. Every subject has it’s time and place to talk about. Know when is the right time and when it is necessary.
Google has better answer. Dating should not be your dictionary or the way to satisfy your curiosity. If you want to know transgender people, feel free to google it and google has more general and comprehend answer than asking one for answer. Do not expect transgender women to be your sexual exploration professor, because we are not here for that. We are here for ts dating. You can know everything you want to know online, why bother? So stop asking and start googling if you are curious. As a matter of fact, if you are to date a transgender woman, being educated with relative knowledge is your responsibility.
Do not take watching special movies online as the only way to learn. Employment situation for transgender people are quite severe. In this community, poverty is common. As a matter of fact, 57% of transgender people are discriminated in working. Hence, transgender people seeks job else where such as sexual-related industry, namely porn. According to Pornhub, words such as shemales and ladyboy are ranked 22th in the searching result. However, let’s not forget, adult porn is often unrealistic. You should know which label is considered as disrespect for us.
Some compliments are not cute at all. Wow, I never knew you were a man. You look just like a woman. For the record, we are women. We are just trapped in a wrong body. That is the truth and there is no need to argue. Some other similar compliments are nothing not rude. Such saying is an expression of not admitting out identification. In your deep heart, you think we are just a bunch of fraud who are pretending to be someone who we are not. We are women and we live as women. We are not pretending. We are ourselves.